Friday, December 12, 2014


Happy Holiday Season Everyone

How are your holiday plans going? Is it crazy yet? For us, Christmas is a quiet time, which just means the rest of our year is too busy. As my friend Catherine tells me, "...but you must like it because you keep doing it.

Last week was a mixed bag. I was in a multi-vehicle accident. I am fine but the car is pretty messed up. Thankfully no one was hurt.

On Friday, we found out that my oldest has been accepted to his first choice college. Yeah!

I saw this in the paper:

The University of Richmond will spend $2.5 million a year to fund internships or research opportunities for all of its full-time undergraduate students beginning next summer.This is an important issue because today's job market is so tough, especially for young people. The days of mass mailing of resumes, even on the internet are gone. I today's economy it is all about networking. by providing opportunities for students to interact with people in their field of study gives them both practical experience face time with the people who might hire them. If you were considering U of Richmond or had not really decided but wanted a Virginia School, check it out.

I read in the paper this morning, in the business section, that a lot of young people cannot calculate the amount of student debt they are collecting or what impact it will have on their future. If you are raising a teenager, and I assume most of you are, YOU NEED TO MAKE SURE THEY ARE FINANCIALLY LITERATE AND RESPONSIBLE. If you have not taught them how to make a budget and how to save for the things they want, you have done them a great disservice. We are not here to make all of their dreams come true, we are here to prepare them for the real world. There are a number of programs out their to help you. I would suggest Crown or Dave Ramsey to start. Enough Said.

As this blog is developing, I am working on having regular features. One of those features will be interviews with people who are in or work with the homeschooling community. This week I had a chance to speak with Marquita Sykes, the Norfolk Public Schools Coordinator for Home Instruction. She is your liaison and go to person when working with Norfolk Public Schools.

Interview with Marquita Sykes, Norfolk Public Schools

Prior to this appointment, what was your experience or understanding of homeschoolers and the homeschool community?
 I worked in the Compensatory Education department for Norfolk Public Schools as the Supplemental Educational Services (SES) afterschool facilitator. This department handles various supplemental education programs and I attended webinars and meetings where we discussed different programs such as home instruction, afterschool programs, school choice and etc. Before I started working with Home Instruction I was trained by the last person who was responsible and was shared all of the information from the packets that we send out to parents. Once I became the district home instruction contact person I  attended various homeschool webinar trainings and researched the home instruction program in Virginia and surrounding states for information and updates.

A lot of first year homeschooling families are confused or intimidated by some of the requirements of state law and local rules. How do you explain it and reassure parents?
I share with the parents the information that they will receive in the home instruction packet and also give them a list of home school tutoring groups in the area that they can contact and get additional information and support from.  Parents are also sent the VA guidelines in the packet which is a FAQ resource. I encourage parents to speak with guidance counselors in the school that there child(ren) are zoned for if they need any guidance on curriculum for the grade level that there child is in. I have a list of different home instruction test providers if parents need them when it comes to sending in evidence of academic achievement at the end of the school year.

What do you think homeschoolers bring and can bring to the school community in Norfolk?
I think homeschoolers can bring the same opportunities as regular public schools. Our students in the public schools do community services projects where they plant gardens or beautify school or community grounds and they also participate in many other community service activities such as working with elderly who are sick or going to the shelters for the holidays and donating can goods or items of clothing. Norfolk has plenty of events happening where students are invited to participate. Parents have the right to go to the schools in and out of their communities to see what the other parents/youth are doing and to participate also.

What do you wish homeschoolers knew about NPS?
Parent’s homeschool for various reasons but in the last few months we have had a lot of students who are being home instructed because of bullying in the schools. I would like for parents to know that Norfolk is working on the bullying prevention and it is a huge issue.  We are now working with the Office of Civil Rights when cases are reported. It will take some time to get all bullying out of schools but now that the issue is at the forefront we are making strides to get a hold to it. There is positive behavior intervention support (PBIS) in all of all schools and teachers and administration have been trained on how to implement this in the buildings. Guidance counselors are also there as a resource and can put interventions in place if a child is being bullied. With all of this being said I would like for parents to talk to the appropriate people to get interventions in place before pulling students into homeschooling if bullying is the reason.

Between elementary and middle school, the numbers of homeschooled students drops by about 40%. From you interactions with families, why does that happen?
I would say that the numbers drop because when the students enroll in middle school the foundation has been taught at home during the elementary years and now the parents feel more comfortable with sending the students to school so that they can be more social and interact in sports and other activities in a public school setting. A lot of the students at this age want to be a part of a public school setting and are mature enough at this age to function highly in a public school.

State law allows some participation in school activities by homeschooled students. A lot of families know that they can play sports, at the discretion of the local superintendent and the school administrator. Are there other opportunities for homeschoolers in NPS?

NPS does not have a school board policy written at this time where students are allowed to participate in sports or go to class part time in the public school setting and part time home school. This is a concern for many of our parents as I have relayed to the Superintendent of Teaching and Learning and it is on the radar to get a policy written up so that this can start. Our home instructed students who have an IEP or receive speech therapy sessions can continue to receive services if parents request this from the Special Education Department. I have written letters for parents who need confirmation that the child is being homeschooled to play on a community sports team and do not mind doing this if requested. I have also written letters to the VDOE for GED testing waivers for homeschool students once they finish there homeschool program and have submitted me the evidence of academic achievement for the 12th grade school year. Students are also allowed to take the PSAT and SAT at their home schools once they are in high school. They can contact the school guidance counselor for test dates and how to register.

Looking forward to your comments and responses to everything in my blog. I do really want some interaction. 

Happy Holidays!
T

Wednesday, October 8, 2014

Greetings!

I hope everyone is well.

One nice thing about starting this blog is that I heard from a family member, my Aunt Celeste. Shout out to her. I remember her being a coupon maven way before it was in fashion. Great to hear from you.

Last time I posted about the hard time that the Sears corporation is having in finding funding. Well, if you plan to shop there, you might want to do it soon. The news (CNBC) is saying that now some vendors and suppliers are not delivering items to the stores. You might want to call ahead.

I am realizing today that I have never really stated what this blog is about. One part is to translate the business news to you the consumer. A lot of the reports you see on the news focus on stock prices and dividends, all the bigwig stuff. I am trying to bring that down to the street level, so that you as the manager of your household can see how the bottom lines of the these big companies can effect your household budget.

Another part will be to talk about saving money. That can include investigating alternative fuels to save on energy costs or where the best thrift stores in a particular town. I have my favorites. But the main part is finding the straight information to help you make the best decision you can.

I look forward to hearing from you









Hey Everyone!

I am posting late (the plan was to post it on Monday) but Boyo and I attended a workshop called, "Funding A College Education", on Monday.  I wanted to report on some of the things I learned there.

First, the workshop was on Naval Station Norfolk. There will be one in November and another one in December, both on military bases which means you would have to have access to the installation to attend.

HOWEVER!
The workshop is conducted by an organization called the Education Opportunity Center (EOC) which is part of the Virginia Tidewater Consortium.  They state they are "An Educational, Career and Financial Aid Counseling Center". All services are free. The gentleman who spoke was very knowledgeable.

I have not visited the center, but plan to very soon and will report back to you on what I find.
If you want to contact them, you can make an appointment by calling (757) 683-2312. I don't know if you can just walk in. The email is www.vtc.odu.edu/outreach

So how is the year going so far?
I love to talk and frequently ask other parents about what is going on in their homeschool. One thing I am hearing is that a lot of families are a little confused  about what the course of study should be in high school. They feel overwhelmed with conflicting information about what  a student needs to take in high school and when should they take it. The law does not give any real guidelines for graduation. So how does a parent know? I will put this out to all of you and ask some of my friends who have recently graduated a student to get some input. Stand by.


In the area of money for school.

Essay contests
from the Library of Virginia:
High School students in Virginia are invited to honor outstanding African Americans by participating in the Strong Men and Women in Virginia History student writing contest. You can learn more at
www.lve.virginia.gov/smw.  The prizes are an Apple iPad Air and a cash award.
Deadline is November 14.

Another opportunity for students
Visual Arts Competition
This is a Christian organization and you should read the information about what  they are looking for. Check it out at:
http://www.oaktonfoundation.com/---!visual-arts-competition/c1dzm#!visual-arts-competition/c1dzm

Finally this week, Amazon has a merit based scholarship available. My sister-in-law sent this to me. I have not checked it out but I wanted to let you know about it. It can be found at:

Have a great week!

Monday, September 29, 2014

Homebase: a Guide to Homeschool in High School

The Downhill Slide
So what is it? What is it about high school that is so intimidating to homeschooling parents that they choose to send their kids to private or public school?
The stats are stunning. Between 5th and 6th grade, the number of students being homeschooled in Hampton Roads is cut by half. This is true of all seven cities and has been consistent over the last ten years despite the overall growth of homeschooling. From 8th grade to 9th the number of young people being educated at home takes another small hit.

The question I have is why? What changes during a child's 5th grade year that convinces a parent to change their educational environment? I am soliciting responses from both current and former homeschooling parents. If you stopped homeschooling, what was your reason? Was it family finances, the challenges of teaching an adolescent or the academic demands? If you considered sending your kids to a traditional school setting, why did you consider this change and what made you stick with homeschooling? I will tabulate the responses and let you know.

Input from Out there:

Thanks to Pam Willoughby, my awesome sister-in-law, for the feedback on the blog last week. Another reason to take the PSAT: it can be a predictor of how well a student might do on Advance Placement exams. Time to schedule the PSAT? Yes it is.


Options!
This is a tight deadline, but on Wednesday, October 1, there will be an Apprentice Expo at Scope from 3-7:30. It is called Scope Your Future and the announcement states that there will be "approximately 70 employers" in attendance. It is free and open to the public. An apprentice program is a great alternative for a kid who might not be interested in college.


Saturday, September 27, 2014

Greetings to all those who are still on the homeschooling journey and those who are just starting out.

This blog is about providing insight, information and connections for those who are homeschooling teenagers.

Today-

Sign ups for PSAT!

From heav.org-it, is that time of year. For those who are not familiar with the PSAT it is the precursor to the SAT. It generally should be taken in 11th grade. Why take it you ask? Two reasons
practice for SAT-find out what you don't know and the Merit Scholarship.
How- I went to my local district school, which is Lake Taylor in Norfolk, and asked to sign my child up.I paid the fee (about $14 two years ago) and that was it. I did not have any problems with the staff but I was clear about what I wanted polite. Remember, you are there to do business not to promote homeschooling.

One of the topic categories I want to put out to parents is upcoming opportunities for scholarships.

Here  is the first one:
http://hslda.org/Contests/Essay/2014/2014rules.asp

Until next time
T